Becoming a manager is one of the biggest transitions in leadership.
You move from doing the work to leading people who do the work.
The hardest part?
You must earn trust and authority — quickly — or the team will resist, test you, or ignore your direction.
In many Nigerian workplaces, especially in government agencies, professional firms, banks, NGOs, and even churches, new managers face challenges like:
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Team members older or more experienced than them
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Staff used to relaxed or inconsistent leadership
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Legacy office politics and “seniority culture”
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Suspicion toward change and new expectations
If a new manager tries to lead by force, they trigger resistance.
If they try to lead by friendship alone, they lose authority.
The key is to build trust and authority together.
Not one before the other.
Not one instead of the other.
The First 90 Days Matter More Than You Think
Your first three months as a manager set your leadership reputation.
People quickly observe:
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Do you know what you're doing?
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Can you be trusted?
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Are you fair?
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Do you respect people?
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Are you consistent?
You do not earn respect just because you received a title.
You earn respect by demonstrating clarity, competence, character, and care.
This is where the ALC First 90 Days Leadership Framework applies.
The ALC Framework for New Managers (4 Pillars)
| Pillar | Focus | What It Builds |
|---|---|---|
| 1. Clarity | Explain expectations & priorities | Confidence + alignment |
| 2. Consistency | Follow through on your own standards | Reliability + respect |
| 3. Competence | Demonstrate depth & skill | Authority + trust |
| 4. Care | Support the growth & humanity of team | Loyalty + openness |
Let’s break each one clearly.
1. Clarity: People Trust Leaders Who Communicate Direction
Confusion kills team performance.
Most employees are not resistant — they are unclear.
As a new manager, define:
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What success looks like for the team
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What your standards are (quality, timeliness, communication)
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What will not be tolerated (e.g., lateness, poor handover, disrespect)
Use this simple script on Day One:
“My goal is to help us work effectively, grow professionally, and achieve strong results together. I will be clear about expectations, I will support you, and we will create a culture of excellence together.”
This sets the tone — without sounding authoritarian.
2. Consistency: Trust is Built by Predictability, Not Promises
In many Nigerian organizations, staff follow the leader with the strongest discipline, not the loudest voice.
Consistency means:
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If you say you will do something, do it.
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If you set a deadline, respect it yourself.
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If you require punctuality, you must be punctual.
When your behavior matches your standards, people follow without being forced.
When your behavior contradicts your standards, your authority collapses.
3. Competence: Authority Is Not a Title — It Is Demonstrated CapAbility
You don't need to know everything.
But you must show:
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Understanding of the work
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Ability to make decisions
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Confidence in communication
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Ability to solve problems calmly
Ask questions that show intelligence, not insecurity:
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“What is the current process here?”
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“What results have historically been achieved?”
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“What challenges show up repeatedly?”
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“What improvement would make the biggest difference?”
This shows leadership thinking, not panic.
4. Care: People Follow Leaders Who Care About Their Growth
Care does not mean being soft or permissive.
Care means recognizing humanity.
Examples:
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Ask: “What support do you need to succeed this week?”
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Give feedback privately, not publicly.
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Correct behavior, not personality.
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Praise effort and improvement, not just outcomes.
When people feel seen and valued, they commit.
When they feel managed like replaceable tools, they resist.
How to Build Authority Without Being Harsh
Instead of saying:
“Do it because I said so.”
Say:
“Let’s align on the expected outcome and time frame.”
Instead of:
“Why did you fail at this?”
Say:
“Walk me through your process — let’s see how to strengthen it.”
Authority is not a tone of voice.
Authority is how you frame reality.
Common Mistakes New Managers Make
| Mistake | Consequence | Correction |
|---|---|---|
| Trying to be “everyone’s friend” | People take advantage | Be warm, but firm & clear. |
| Acting like a dictator | Resistance builds | Involve people in decisions. |
| Focusing on tasks only | Team burnout | Coach skills + mindset. |
| Avoiding difficult conversations | Problems grow quietly | Address issues early and respectfully. |
Leadership is a balance — not extremes.
Practical Weekly Routine for New Managers
Use this rhythm:
| Day | Leadership Action | Benefit |
|---|---|---|
| Monday | Set weekly priorities with the team | Alignment |
| Wednesday | Quick progress check-in | Momentum |
| Friday | Celebrate wins + lessons learned | Motivation & loyalty |
Structure creates stability.
Stability creates trust.
Trust enables high performance.
Conclusion
You do not build trust by waiting.
You do not build authority by force.
You build both by:
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Communicating clearly
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Demonstrating competence
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Holding consistent standards
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Respecting and developing people
People follow leaders who make them better.
The goal is not to be liked or feared.
The goal is to be trusted and respected.
That is sustainable leadership.